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Halima Nwakego, ex-wife of Bashir El-Rufai, has opened up astir her divorce, heartbreak and acquisition arsenic a azygous mother, revealing that she had doubts astir her matrimony adjacent earlier it began.
Halima shared her acquisition successful a station published connected her substack, Memoirs of a Single Nigerian Twin Mum with ADHD.
She revealed that her matrimony to Bashir, lad of erstwhile Kaduna State Governor Nasir El-Rufai, ended successful July 2024.
The mates joined successful 2020 and welcomed duplicate boys successful 2021.
Bashir had announced the extremity of the marriage, describing the concern arsenic “Gen Z wahala”, earlier aboriginal apologising publically implicit the mode helium disclosed the separation.
Reflecting connected her mindset earlier and during the marriage, Halima said she ne'er had overmuch religion successful the instauration and believed the national would yet end.
“Imagine entering a matrimony already preparing for its funeral,” she wrote.
She besides disclosed that she fell successful emotion with different antheral months aft her divorce, but the narration aboriginal ended successful heartbreak.
“There is simply a saying that men volition stain your white,” she noted.
Despite her reservations astir men, Halima said she inactive had beardown religion successful love.
“For idiosyncratic with truthful small religion successful men, I person a ridiculous magnitude of religion successful love,” she added.
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